Introduction
Physical beauty in a woman may not be everything, but for good or bad it’s certainly very important. Would Prince Charming have asked Cinderella for a dance and fallen in love with her if she had not been the most beautiful girl at the ball? The honest answer is probably “No”. Psychological studies show that men still rank female beauty the highest among a long list of attributes that they seek in women. The phrase “I love you for your beauty” is hardly likely to be heard from the lips of a man in these politically correct days, but it is nevertheless often true, at least in the earliest stages of a relationship. A wonderful mind is great, but sometimes – like Cinderella – you also need the “beauty” to create the initial opening.
The immense amount of time and money that the average women spends on maintaining or improving her physical appearance has been given many justifications, but “I just like to look my best” is very close to “I just like to look beautiful”.
It can be reasonably claimed that societies continuing lust for physical beauty is more appropriate to the Stone Age than to the modern Internet Age – the qualities that men find alluring in a woman may be powerful emblems of her health, fertility and resistance to disease, but they say nothing about her moral worth. The valuing of physical beauty may cause emotional pain and considerable injustice, but this does not prevent its continued worship – as a brief perusal of any magazine stand will prove.
The increasing number of lawsuits involving claimed discrimination on the basis of looks have made little impact to our attitude, nor have the best efforts of some feminist pressure groups to stop the supposed exploitation of women’s body’s (e.g. beauty contests) – indeed it can be argued that advances in cosmetics, plastic surgery and a constant media bombardment have increased the pressure on women to be “beautiful”.
The Competition to be Beautiful
We might be in the 21st century but the brutal reality is that deep down most women know that their appearance and attractiveness to men (i.e. their beauty) matters … and sometimes matters a lot.
Historically there were often many more adult women than available fit adult men – the dangers of hunting, warfare, long journeys etc taking all too many men in their prime. For women, finding a husband to look after them could become a life and death matter, being more beautiful than your peers often meant the difference between a long life and even luxurious life – and starvation.
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Gallery of Female Beauty
Some are apparently genetically XX while others are presumably XY – I’ll let you try to work out which is which!



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The Cinderella story still shows to all the young girls who are read it every night, beautiful young women are far more likely to marry “better”, richer and socially higher husbands than the ugly sisters are – and it is certainly no coincidence that so many of the wives and mistresses of noblemen and royalty that we see in portraits dating back 200 years, 400 years, … 600 years are often exceptionally beautiful women – even discounting some generous artistic licence.
Even today, being beautiful definitely has practical advantages – for example pretty, tall, slim women earn about 15% more than their more dowdy, shorter, fatter counterparts. It is perhaps not surprising that women discuss the appearance and beauty of [other] women at least as much as men do, and far more brutally and critically
For many women, a concern about their looks is not just an important part of being female, but a fundamental of being themselves. Most mothers enjoy and take great pride in dressing up their daughters from the earliest age with make-up, hair accessories, jewellery and dresses. A young girl can expect to get more compliments on her appearance than anything else, and soon learns the rewards of looking pretty and being considered beautiful – all of which is reinforced by Cinderella type stories.
A girls informal beauty lessons and training start by nursery age – and by her teens she will already have spent hundreds, if not thousands, of hours practicing and experimenting. During puberty, peer pressure often makes her appearance and looks become almost an obsession. Dissatisfaction is all too common – e.g. about half of all High School girls are on some form of weight control regime, and even plastic surgery is nowadays increasingly desired!

Born male, now female – but very few transwomen are so lucky in the beauty race. |
It’s relevant to this site to point out that a transsexual male-to-female woman who transitions as an adult lacks this lengthy childhood beautification “training”. She thus faces an enormous challenge in developing as quickly as possible her female orientation, appearance and presentation – something which other women have been doing since their birth. This is a great disadvantage, and makes successful “passing” as a woman far more difficult, particularly in the first months after full time transition.
What is Female Beauty?
The experts tell us that the physical features and characteristics considered to be “beautiful” are in fact subconscious indicators of fertility and good health, while some other features and characteristics are considered to be “unattractive” because they render a person less fertile or more susceptible to disease and parasite assaults. For example, a woman with an oestrogenized small chin and a small waist-to-hip ratio appears to be beautiful because these are physical features that indicate good fertility, childbearing ability and general health. And of course a man has reciprocal features to indicate his facility to sire healthy children, and (apparently less importantly) support them and the mother.
Judging beauty involves looking at another person and subconsciously figuring out whether you want your children to carry that person’s genes. We judge each other by rules that we’re often not even aware of. We may consciously admire Kate Moss’s legs, but we’re also viscerally attuned to small variations in the size and symmetry of facial bones and the placement of weight on the body.
Research correlates the physical attraction of human males to human females to certain basic physical features, regardless of culture. These include:
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signs of youthfulness (vigour, flexibility, bounciness, smooth skin);
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signs of health (clear skin, lack of disease, physical fitness);
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a good figure with an optimal hip-waist ratio and generous bust;
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facial and body symmetry;
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an infant like face.
The possession of beautiful characteristics by a woman acts as a ‘certification of biological quality’, offering her a significant mating advantage over other women in the competition for partners and reproduction – historically and today. All men are innately attracted to a beautiful woman, and she is thus more likely to be able to attract and select a high quality, high status, man as her mate – but women can often be pragmatic and he may not be the most beautiful (aka most handsome and physically attractive) partner available. It can be argued that women have an inherent ruthless streak that urges them to seek out the most beautiful mate to sire her children, and separately (and if necessary deceitfully) a high value partner who will best look after her and her children. Modern DNA testing is certainly revealing in many instances a woman’s children are actually be sired by another, presumably often more “beautiful” man, than their husband – one study found that 1 in 8 of the children tested were probably calling the wrong man “Daddy”!

To a man, a beautiful woman is more than just a beautiful face – it’s the total package!


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Our ancestors preferred to mate with “beautiful” individuals in order to leave more, and healthier, offspring than the average individual in the population. The process of evolution then further emphasises “beautiful” characteristics – in women the overhead of say an extra pound of flesh on the bust has proven to be a far more successful survival technique than say stronger muscles.
While sexual equality may be vogue, in reality the two predominant genetic (XX and XY) sexes are drifting ever further apart in their physical appearance. In particular women are still evolving to appear ever more beautiful and youthful – and evolving far more rapidly than men. Men are not evolving towards their model of beauty at the same rate as women because an ugly but rich and high status man can be successful in attracting a good quality mate. A statistical analysis of “beautiful” Hollywood couples shows that their first child is 67% more likely to be a girl than a boy – nature somehow seizing the chance to maximise the birth of child of the sex for whom beauty is the more important.
It seems quite possible that in a few hundred generations time the average 35 year old woman could have the looks and figure of a 20 year old Playboy model today – and without the surgery. In the context of this site, a middle aged male-to-female transsexual worried about passing as a woman should perhaps be thankful that evaluation hasn’t had another 10,000 years to work on homo sapiens!
Youthfulness and Health
Despite the current legal war against ageism, people’s perception of whether a woman is beautiful is still (and will surely remain) closely linked to her age. While no age is given for the beautiful Cinderella, there are strong indications in the story that she has not long ceased to be a girl in the biological sense, and is certainly still a teenager.
A common finding in studies is that males prefer females who are young, strong and healthy – but above all who are fertile and at the peak of their reproductive potential. A woman’s ability to bear children is dependent upon her age and hormone levels. A woman is at her reproductive peak around the age of 20, even with the support of modern medicine (HRT, IVF,…) her fertility has declined two thirds by age 44, and it’s usually spent by 54.
In one cross-cultural survey, men in all 37 of the societies examined preferred younger wives, on average around 2 ½ years younger than the male. And as males get older, they prefer mates who are increasingly younger.
If a woman is ever going to be considered “beautiful” it’s in the years from her late puberty (typically 15 or 16), when her body has fully rounded out, to her early 20’s, before gravity and the passage of time have started to work their first ravages. The male eye is astonishing good at picking up the first sign of aging in an otherwise perfectly youthful beauty – signs of character around the eye’s, bad teeth, or less than firm buttocks and warning lights flash and marks are subconsciously deducted.
The female face is particularly easy to read for signs of aging. The youthful woman has large eyes and plump lips. The apparent size of these features peaks in the early 20s when fertility also peaks. As fertility declines, the lips dry and shrink, the skin wrinkles and the flesh round the eyes causes them to look smaller.
Age is the foremost enemy of beauty, but ill health and overexposure to sunlight also take their toll. Wrinkles are not due purely to chronological age. Most skin specialists say that the majority of wrinkles are due to sunlight, as a result of constant exposure to the sun the face skin ages more quickly and more visibly than any other part of the body. Avoiding the Sun is the best way to prevent or delay wrinkles, although we do need some natural light for health, while sunbathing will considerably hasten it.
But the effects of ageing do other things to the face as well. Gravity plays a big part. The jowls drop and the fatty tissues beneath the skin break down as cells are replaced less often. The face of youth is a triangle shape – at it’s widest at the cheekbones. The face of age is more like a square with the chin competing for dominance. The cheeks sink in and the skin looks less fresh because the epidermal cells have slowed down their rate of renewal. Melanin in the hair stops renewing itself and the hair turns grey or white. Strangely though, the eyelashes retain their colour throughout life, never turning white.
Genetics also plays a part in ageing. As melanin protects the skin from wrinkling, the people who are likely to show their age most quickly are freckly redheads, who have less melanin than others.
Good luck as regards genes, combined with a healthy life style and regular exercise can delay things, but by age 30 at the very latest, even a supermodel will lose the allure of youthfulness when unaided by cosmetics, surgery and supporting garments.

Western women spend about an hour a day on their make-up, hair, and otherwise maintaining their appearance. |
With the help of such artificial aids most women seek the appearance of eternal youth – but at great and ever increasing cost in time and money. The average American woman spends nearly one hour a day (two or even three hours isn’t uncommon) on beauty care and maintaining her appearance:- bathing, makeup, hair, nails, depilating, massage, exercising, selecting her attire, etc.
Symmetry
One key to physical attractiveness is symmetry; humans, like other species, show a strong preference for individuals whose right and left sides are well matched. John Manning of Liverpool University has reports that symmetrical men have higher quality sperm, with fewer deformed ones in the mix. He claims that symmetry is like nature’s black box – it tells you all you need to know about someone’s genetic history.
For both men and women, greater symmetry predicts a larger number of past sex partners, and a 1994 study found that the most symmetrical males had not only had more off-spring than their most lopsided brethren, but started having sex three to four years earlier! Also, a survey of 86 couples found that women with highly symmetrical partners were more than twice as likely to climax during intercourse (an event that may foster conception by ushering sperm into the uterus) than those with low-symmetry partners.
Studies show that highly symmetrical people are healthier, grow faster, and are better able to survive, while low-symmetry has been linked to schizophrenia, mental retardation, birth pre-maturity and left-handedness. Facial symmetry is certainly associated with health. After analysing diaries kept by 100 students over a two-month period, researchers found that the least symmetrical had the most physical complaints, from insomnia to nasal congestion, and reported more anger, jealousy and withdrawal. 
Neotenous Female Face
A key feature of female facial attractiveness is the extent of neotenous (infant-like) features that the face displays. [For more information on the form of the feminine face, see here]
As a rule, average faces are more attractive than unusual ones but the faces we find most beautiful are not average. When people are asked to develop ideal faces on a computer, they tend to exaggerate certain qualities. A 1993 study used a computer program which allowed participants to morph faces until they had achieved an ‘ideal’ face. The ideal 25-year-old woman as configured by participants had a higher forehead than an average one, as well as fuller lips, a shorter jaw and a smaller chin and nose. She had a 14-year-old’s abundant lips and an 11-year-old’s delicate jaw. Because her lower face was so small, she also had relatively prominent eyes and cheekbones.
An attractive face is not average!The most attractive face shape is not average. In one study, pictures of 60 female faces, aged 20-30 and without makeup, were rated for attractiveness by male and female subjects.
- An “Average” face (A) was made by blending 60 female faces into an average.
- An “Attractive” face (B) was made identifying the facial shape of the 15 most attractive female faces and then adjusting the average face to this shape. 90% of male and female Caucasian subjects preferred this to the average shape (A).
- An “Enhanced” face (C) was formed by exaggerating the shape differences between images (A) and (B) by a further 50%. 70% of the subjects preferred this to image (B).

(A) Average face |

(B) Attractive face |

(C) Enhanced face |
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